Secrets of Khajuraho
I found it extremely difficult to write about Khajuraho, India’s famous sex temples without mentioning anything graphic or explicit. It is impossible to tone down the highly sexual content, which is most often pornographic, but it does not end there. Khajuraho is just not about sex, but about a very powerful and important civilization, it’s beliefs, achievements and finely embedded symbolic Tantric (primal nearly occult) practices. So here I am trying to go deeper into Khajuraho’s titillating historical art and unfold the mystical layers that lie beneath.
I came to Khajuraho,one early morning and immediately got accosted by hustlers. A typical touristy town it was teeming with hotels, restaurants, high priced shops and way too many touts. Everything was on offer from tuk tuks (auto rickshaws),”nice” hotels. Italian wood fire pizzas, yoga classes, male company (as a solo woman traveler I was always presumed to be lonely) and I ran inside the Hotel Surya, where I had booked a room online. Although not the cheapest one available, for 1200 INR (20 USD) it offered simple, clean and comfortable garden facing rooms, wholesome tasty food and was an oasis of peace and quiet. It was still very early in the morning and there was hardly any tourist on the streets or near the temple site. I decided to make use of the morning tranquility and explore the temples in solitude because after my days at Ken, I was in no mood to dive headlong into commercial din and bustle.
I took a quick shower and ventured out in the golden sun for breakfast. It was a beautiful morning with a delicious nip in the air, golden tendrils of sun pouring in through huge banyan trees and rural sounds of a temple town waking up filled the air. Bells tolled sweetly at a shrine nearby and a small procession of brightly clad ladies sang as they carried baskets of flowers, sweets and incense to the nearby Shiv Sagar Lake. They were celebrating a seasonal Thanksgiving festival (for bountiful harvest) and their sweet lilting Bundelkhandi voices added an unforgettable charm to that Khajuraho morning. I finished my breakfast of coffee and croissant and walked towards the Western temple complex with the voices of the singing ladies still ringing in a distance.
TRAVEL TIP – Khajuraho is divided into 3 parts – Western (the largest with most erotic carvings), Eastern (equally stunning but more sedate) and Southern (nearly obscure and often avoided by most tourists). The Western temple complex is situated in the town and it makes sense to dedicate an entire day to it.
I bought an entrance and camera ticket, armed myself with an audio guide and ventured inside one of world’s most visited archaeological site. Although I had trawled the web extensively before arriving at Khajuraho, nothing had prepared me for the overwhelming presence of these magnificent edifices. They towered proudly in the sun-ethereal, timeless and larger than life. I felt like a naughty voyeur and soon my sublime day turned tumultuous and highly erotic. Sun felt too warm suddenly and as I explored deeper and deeper into the temple complex, it got very uncomfortable in my clothes. It was very strange how characters frozen in time could affect anybody like that, but I was definitely not the only one to feel so.
A vast complex, the Western group of temples comprises of Varaha temple, Laxmana temple, Kandariya Mahadev temple, Devi Jagdamba temple, Chitragupta temple, Chousanth Yogini temple etc and all except the Mahadev and Chousanth Yogini temples (which are made of granite), fine grained sandstone was used to construct these magnificent monuments. They glowed a soft golden or blushed deep pink as the sun teased them into a playful game of hide and seek.
Khajuraho can be enjoyed best as a voyeur and it is this feeling of being privy to not only the erotica, but the emotions that seep out of the people frozen in time that heightens its pleasure. Apart from nonchalant couples engaged in acrobatic sexual positions, there were glimpses of lovers tangled into each others souls staring into each others eyes for eternity. The intensity of their gaze or the passion which throbbed in their kisses took my breath away and I actually had to take breaks from staring at them, so as to settle my beating heart. These massive structures were but a phantasmagoria of laughing, teasing, taunting souls busily caught in their web of time. Fantastically they seemed real and we, the living world were just a part of some grotesque graceless movie reel they were hardly paying attention to. They held secrets of tantra and symbols within themselves, offering us mortal fools only tiny titillating glimpses of their medieval lives. I bowed down to the grand architects, the sculptors who formed these fantasies, because they seemed beyond the capacity of mortal creativity. They were magicians and these temples were fit for descendants of the Moon himself.
Listed as a UNESCO World Heritage Site, Khajuraho is derived from the ancient word “kharjuvahaka” which literally means one who carries the date palm. It was one of world’s best kept secrets until the late 19th century, when the British engineer T.S.Burt and General Alexander Cunningham discovered the marvelous ruins among the dense jungle that claimed them and put Khajuraho on the world map. Built by the powerful Chandelas between 950 and 1150 A.D, these temples are one of the finest specimens of temple art. Initially subordinates of the Pratihara rulers, Chandelas are mythological descendants of the Moon who were great patrons of art,tantra and ruled the Bundelkhand region for 100 years.
The story of the origin of Chandelas is as captivating as the temples they created. According to the legends, one night the moon god Chandra spotted the beautiful maiden Hemvati bathing in a lake and fell in love with her. She was the daughter of a local priest and was so exquisite that he descended from his celestial abode, took form of a handsome prince and seduced her. After a passionate night of love making, at the break of dawn,Chandra reluctantly left to take his position in the sky. Before leaving he reassured her that a son would be born out of their union and he would be a great king, who would establish the powerful Chandela dynasty. It is said that Hemvati’s son Chandravarman built 85 temples at Khajuraho to atone his mother’s illegitimate love affair and thus started the passionate love story etched in stone.
Powerful, explicit and layered – Presenting the story of dates, sex and secrets of Khajuraho..each day as it went for Maverickbird.
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great post!!
Thank you
Didn’t know about the history behind the Khajuraho till now. Thanks to you, now I do.
Looking forward for more from you. Best wishes to you!
Priyan
Thank you Priyan..Khajuraho was an awesome eye opening experience
Great post…..I still have to visit Khajuraho even though residing in its neighborhood, Delhi and Allahabad
Thank you do visit Khajuraho, you will love it
Khajuraho is really a beautiful temple, and your description make me want to go there 🙂
It is very very beautiful and interesting
Fabulous pictures and supported by good details to get acquainted with. Have done a nice job..!
Thank you
Very nicely written. But I’m left wondering what you left out?
The secrets of khajuraho will be revealed slowly
This is a great series of posts. Nice job.
Thank you
Interesting, and not so ribald as your into implied. I’m almost a little disappointed! Thanks!
Khajuraho clearly indicates that every human being is amorous and deeply fascinated by sexual desire. If we observe the worldly thoughts of Hinduism; there is nothing unnatural about them. Isn’t it?
Absolutely true. It’s sensible, practical and as humane as it can get
Those who doesn’t become emotional or moved by the erotic sculptures were the appropriate ones to enter these temples. These symbolizes of controlling our senses.
wow…
Thank you.
Well, I’ve read about these temples, seen the pictures, and more. Sharing your experiences here are very interesting indeed. Will need to find the rest of this series and explore. I can see why it’s a difficult thing to write about, you’re approaching it in a wonderful way.
Thank you. The Khajuraho temples had been incredible.
Great blog and the pictures are fabulous
Thank you very much.
Stunning post described so artistically Thanks and regards
Thank you
Very nicely “rendered”. I like the way you sprinkle the story’s words between photographs…
(I might do that one day…)
🙂
Thank you Brian. You made my day.
My pleasure. It is very… neat and elegant. Also forces the reader into a different way of “reading/looking”. I’ll plunder the idea. 🙂
Thank you. Please feel free to use the idea.
Thank you. have a lovely week-end, wherever you are.
brian
You are welcome. Have a wonderful weekend too, Brian (wherever you are lol).
We are all living in different parallel universes aren’t we? 🙂
Yes we are living in different parallel universes and our own bubbles of existences, which are so familiar yet so very alien at the same time.
And yet, we are able to make our separate times touch, albeit briefly. It always reminds of an ancestor of mine who left France to India in 1794 and never came back. I think of his mother, of both writing letters sent by ship in a 2-3 months voyage back and forth. A single exchange could possibly last 4-5 months… And here we are, time difference allowing, exchanging words in a day or two. Nice…:)
Seems surreal nowadays to think of those days, when we are actually, as you say, connecting instantaneously irrespective of time and space differences. And I am sure in those days, they must have dreamt of our lightning fast communication. Your ancestor’s story is so deeply emotional. You have Indian roots. I am very astonished.
French-English Indian roots. In India for over two centuries. My little sister and I were the last born on the continent. In Pakistan. Supposedly I spoke urdu before french… But forgot it all now. 😉
Wow. You have been born with wings….literally. Getting more and more impressed with each message.
Haha! You’re only too kind. We are mostly what chance makes us. Have a lovely week.
Thank you. Hope you had a good weekend.
Yes, thank you. So did you I hope. Where are you now?
I had a very productive weekend. Thank you. In Jaipur right now, heading towards Bera Leopard Sanctuary.
In Jaipur? That is definitely on my travel list. My grandmother was born in Jowrah. I think it is spelled Joara now. And my great-grandfather worked in Gwalior. Looked at the map, not that far. 🙂
Enjoy the sanctuary
Gwalior is beautiful. It is a grand old city filled with a gorgeous hill top fort, lovely marble tombs and mausoleums, gardens and surrounded by forests. I love Gwalior. What was your grandfather doing there?
He worked for Rao Scindia, the Maharadjah. He was Inspector general of police I think. His tomb is still in Ujjain. Sounds like a Kipling story right? 🙂
Wow. It sure does. Are you sure you exist and that you are not a ghost or an imagination? My god, such an incredible family history.
Cross my heart, I ain’t a ghost. Yet. 🙂 And yes, it is a somewhat different family story. I have cousins spread all the way to tahiti and Cape town. Some of us were raised in Sawhili. But then, if you think of it many “european” families went through the same, in India, in Africa, in Asia. My father wrote most of the story, going back to the 1400’s in Flanders. Only two problems, it’s typewritten, not electronic and it’s in French, so I would need to translate it. Enjoy Jaipur. Tikkhai? or something like that? 🙂
Thikhai..Thank you. Will enjoy Jaipur. Looking forward to reading your father’s story. Have a great weekend.
You too my dear.
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Thanks to those rulers, artists and crafts men who made such unique piece of art.
Highs of culture of mankind. And look what kind of world we are living.
Feeling sad for those who tried to vandalis and break those art pieces.
Yes true. Nowadays we destroy more than we create.
I bumped into this post courtesy Google. I’ve been searching for some good literature on Khajuraho, especially stories (fiction or otherwise) set in the context of the temples. So far I haven’t found any….except for a short story by Manjula Padmanabhan which relates the Khajuraho experience of a middle-aged American couple, particularly the havoc the stark sculptures create in the woman’s mind. It’s the psychological impact that I found fascinating…something you dwell on as well.
On a slightly different note, while the world at large tends to focus endlessly on the erotica, the antiquity and the royal lineage behind these temples, the nameless sculptors are seldom a talking point. So it’s heartening to note they find mention here. As someone said, “The quest to delve in the past is to be in the shoes of the sculptors and simulate their thought process.”
Wow, Debashish. Thank you very much. I am always intrigued by what goes in the mind of the creator when they create something and what do they want to express. Your words are very encouraging.
Have you been to the Ajanta and Ellora caves?
Yes I have.
Since you don’t have a write-up on them here, I am tempted to ask…if I may…how was the experience?
It was lovely. I enjoyed Ellora more than Ajanta.
Came across this quote in a book on Calcutta.
I have come to the conclusion that he who does not encounter the whole universe in the streets of his city will not encounter an original street in any of the cities of the whole world. He won’t encounter them because those who are blind in Buenos Aires are blind in Madrid, or in Calcutta.
– Roberto Arlt, ‘The Pleasure of Vagabonding’
Methinks you have enough material on your blog here for a travelogue-cum-memoir of your own. 🙂 Talking of which…I recently read the following written by a South African lady and, needless to say, thoroughly enjoyed it.
https://www.amazon.com/Way-out-India-Travels-Curious/dp/1514259958/
Wow, Debashish. That is such a wonderful thing to say. You made my day and I am looking forward to reading this book.
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Wow! Great Job thank you for sharing this such interesting post. Keep it I will visit again.
Good job…!
Thank you
Those pictures are absolutely gorgeous! I love places with amazing beauty. I will be sure to visit this location. Thank you for sharing! I really appreciate the work you have done, you explained everything in such an amazing and simple way.Good post. I was searched for this topic.
Fascinating & Interesting.
This beauty of this place should reach maximum number of people. And every Indian should know that this is a huge part of our culture so, that we can stop shaming sex and its relevant things.
Thank you. I agree.
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Wow, I didn’t know story behind the Khajuraho temple. I heard many theories behind it. Thanks for sharing it
Thank you.
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worth a read.
loved going through it
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Khajuraho is definitely interesting to those who want to see some nice ancient architecture, although a bit sensitive one.
Nice Post Keep It Up…
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Yet to visit ‘Khajuraho’ – it is on my travel list but one question arises: Whether to publish pictures or not?
Why not?